Welcome to the March Carnival of Natural Parenting: Natural Parenting Top 10 Lists
This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama. This month our participants have shared Top 10 lists on a wide variety of aspects of attachment parenting and natural living. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.
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I try to parent as gently as I can, and I want to have as natural a home environment for my littles as possible. I do my best to keep the chemicals and preservatives out of our house, to reduce the garbage that piles in front of our house on trash day. I want to show my kids that doing our part to take care of the world we live in is important. For us, it is how we show our love for Mother Earth.
So I keep certain things on hand to make our lives and this household run smoothly.
These are some of my favorite things in my kitchen witch momma arsenal:
Several gallons of assorted vinegars.
I use it to whiten my sink and sweeten the drain, clean stains, soften laundry, get lime deposits out of my tea kettle, clean the coffee pot, polish chrome, clean windows, wash hair, improve our health… It has a million uses….
A mixture of 1 teaspoon of liquid detergent and 1 teaspoon of white distilled vinegar in a pint of lukewarm water will remove non-oily stains from carpets. Apply it to the stain with a towel and gently rub, then blot with water to rinse.
To make a fantastic all purpose cleaner, mix 1 part water to 1 part vinegar in a new spray bottle and it will clean most areas of your home.
To clean calcium and lime deposits (as well as coffee ick) I fill the reservoir with white vinegar and run through the brew cycle once a month. Rinse thoroughly with two cycles of cold water.
Cloth.
We use towels and rags in the kitchen, cloth napkins, pads and clothdiapers… We are working to get as much paper out of our house as possible! In fact, its become a running joke that any time my mother comes to visit she will ask me if I have any paper towels at least once. So now I keep a roll on the dispenser for her drop by visits. I only go through one roll every couple of months, but it does come in handy for things like cat sick or poo.
My composter and garden..
I don’t have either anymore… I had to leave both at the old apartment and I MISS them every day. I feel so guilty when we throw away anything that would have gone into the composter. I loved burying our kitchen scraps in the earth of my composter, knowing that every visit out there was helping to create beautiful rich soil for my garden! If I can find a good sunny spot in my very shady yard, I’d love to get both garden and composter going once spring finally arrives.
Coconut products.
We drink coconut milk, use coconut creamer in our coffee, eat coconut ice cream and use coconut oil in our cooking and baking- super healthy and a perfect source of energy… Coconut oil is also great as a beauty product (it makes a great deodorant when mixed with baking soda!) and a base for making salves or deodorant!
Coconut Deodorant:
5 Tbsp. of Coconut Oil
1/3 cup of Baking Soda
1/3 cup of Cornstarch (or arrowroot powder)
Essential oils (optional)
Gather whatever containers you want to use ( I prefer old empty deodorant applicators) Mix ingredients thoroughly you have a paste. You can add more baking soda and cornstarch in equal amounts if it doesn’t seem thick enough to you. Scoop it into the containers and store. You may want to store it in the fridge if the weather is hot.
My clothesline.
The first time my dryer broke it was the month before Cooper was born, and I panicked wondering how I would keep up with laundry and clothdiapers without it. Luckily we had a wonderful clothesline set up with four lines for hanging clothes because we were a family of seven at the time and doing laundry was a full time project. I would hang the clothes out at least three times a day, every sunny day between June and November (when the huz bought me a new (old) dryer) and I loved it. It was my thinking time, my time to soak in the vitamin d and just be alone. I miss having one. I wish we could hang clothes here but the yard is almost completely shaded. I’m not sure I will even get to have my beloved garden again.
Twitter.
Twitter is my sanity saver. My go-to place for advice. It is like having grandmothers, sisters, midwives, computer gurus, doctors and editors available twenty-four hours a day. I am a better, calmer mother because of the wonderful community I’ve found on twitter.
Trader Joe’s.
I love Trader Joe’s. My weekly visit has become my favorite part of errand day, and my freezer is stuffed with yummy saag paneer and naan. I love that I can find interesting foods and a lot of organic stuff that I can’t find elsewhere. I love that the ingredients on the label are usually stuff that I can pronounce.
My BabyHawk.
We’ve tried wraps, slings, and mei tais through our years of babywearing. But my favorite is our BabyHawk mei tai. Now that Cooper is bigger, he doesn’t always like to be in it, but there were many times that dinner would not have been prepared, dolls would not have been sewn, and errands would not have been completed if I didn’t have babywearing in my arsenal of Mommy Tricks.
Glass jars.
I use these to store everything from leftovers to loose change, dried beans, pasta, rice, and herbs. I am always on the prowl for another case of lovely wide-mouthed jars. Now if only I could get over my fear of canning!
My Herbal Cupboard.
It is awesome that I can just grab the things I need to make the kids’ “magic” ouchie cream whenever we run out, tea for menstrual cramps, colds, sore throats… As well as tinctures and baby butt balm!
Magick Ouchie Cream
1 cups calendula flower
1/2 cup comfrey leaf
1/2 cup chamomile flower
1/2 cup lavender flower
1/4 cup marshmallow root
2 cups almond oil (or whatever you’d like to substitute)
Grated beeswax ( about 1/4 cup grated for each cup of oil)
1. Combine the herbs and oil in a double boiler or a glass bowl set over a pot of simmering water. Let sit, stirring occasionally until the herbs have infused the oil, about an hour. Strain. (Or-the longer method, set herbs/oil in glass jar on a sunny windowsill for two weeks. Strain through a cheesecloth. Then place mixture in a double boiler and warm for 1 hour over very low heat.)
2. Add 1/4 cup grated beeswax for each cup of oil you now have. Continue to warm until beeswax is melted.
3. Check consistency by placing 1 tablespoon of mixture in the freezer for a few minutes. If too soft, add more beeswax. If too hard, add more oil.
4. Store in small jars or tins.
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Visit Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama to find out how you can participate in the next Carnival of Natural Parenting!
Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:
(This list will be live and updated by afternoon March 8 with all the carnival links.)
- Attachment Parenting in the NICU — Erica at ChildOrganics shares some strategies to help you parent naturally in some unnatural circumstances.
- 10 Reasons to Choose Baby Led Weaning — Luschka from Diary of a First Child shares ten reasons to choose Baby Led Weaning when it comes to solids.
- Choosing to Breastfeed — From selfishness to self-giving, CatholicMommy at Working to be Worthy lists reasons why breast is best for her and her family.
- Ten Things I Wish I Knew About Before Little Man — In this reflective post, The ArstyMama discusses ten things she wishes she knew more about before the birth of her son, Little Man.
- 10 Things That Helped Me Become a Natural Mama — The Accidental Natural Mama counts down ten things that helped her find her moderately crunchy inner mama self.
- Top 10 Reasons to Breastfeed Your Toddler — Extended breast-feeder Kate Wicker of Momopoly makes her own top 10 list for why she loves nursing her 2-year-old.
- Top 10 Tips on Authentic Grandparenting — Mamapoekie of Authentic Parenting offers a list of tips to make the grandparent-parent-child relationship flow smoothly.
- Top Ten “Dad” Things — Liam at In The Now talks about his favourite ways to spend time with his children.
- Top 10 Natural Strategies for Conception (aka How to Get Pregnant!) — Despite facing plenty of health issues, Jessica Claire at Crunchy-Chewy Mama found her way to two first-try pregnancies thanks to these natural strategies.
- Top Ten Reasons Why Home Birth Rocks — Lucy at Dreaming Aloud shares her passion for birthing at home – the natural place for natural birth.
- Top 10 reasons why cloth nappies are fun — Tat at Cloth Nappies Are Fun shows how using cloth nappies can brighten up your day.
- Top Ten Ways to Be Present With Family — Amy at Innate Wholeness shares how to make the most of parenting and family life through being present.
- Top 10 Things In My Arsenal of Kitchen Witchy Mama Tricks. — Joni Rae at Tales of A Kitchen Witch shares with us the simple things she would never want to be missing from her cupboards.
- Top 10 ways I’m not very good at natural parenting (and why I keep trying anyway) — Jenny at Babyfingers shares the ways she is imperfect as a natural parent, and why she embraces natural parenting anyway.
- Top 10 Ways to Know You Are a Natural Parent — So what makes us “natural parents,” anyway? A lighthearted look at the Top 10 Ways to Know You Are a Natural Parent by the editors and readers of Natural Parents Network.
- The Top 10 Things Every Natural Household (with children) Should Have — Amanda at Let’s Take the Metro shares a list of the most common natural products and remedies she uses for health and cleaning.
- Top 10 books for raising loving, spiritual children — In her ‘food for the soul’ post, Mrs Green from Little Green Blog shares her favourite spiritual books. No matter what religion you practise, there’s something for everyone!
- Top 10 Things No One Told Me About Natural Parenting — Adrienne at Mommying My Way explains that the best things about natural parenting are things she never expected.
- Top 10 Flower Essences for Families — Kim of Nature Baby Bloggings lists her pick of the top ten flower essence which can help ease families through the ups and downs of life.
- My Top Ten Parenting Tools — Amyables at Toddler In Tow names the top ten tools that have been helpful to her while learning to parent respectfully and successfully.
- Ten Ways Families Can Enjoy Nature (for free!) — Spring is nearly in the air, and Jenn at Monkey Butt Junction is dreaming of the fun and frugal ways that her family is going to get out and enjoy nature this summer.
- 10 Reasons We Unschool — Patti at Jazzy Mama explains why unschooling is the right choice for her family.
- Must Read: Natural Parenting Top Ten — Amy at Anktangle wants you to do a little reading! She shares her top ten favorite books to help parents prepare for pregnancy, birth, and parenting.
- Top 10 Breastfeeding Misconceptions — Sheila at A Gift Universe examines ten reasons women give for why they didn’t breastfeed as long as they wanted, and shows how these obstacles can be overcome.
- Ten Reasons to Plan a Home Birth — Since a home birth can be an incredibly empowering experience, Leslie at Lights and Letters outlines ten reasons why you should plan to have your baby at home.
- Top Ten Books for Birth, Breastfeeding and Parenting — Megan at Just Me(gan) writes about the ten books that have helped her the most in her natural parenting journey.
- A Top Ten Letter To Me… — Kat at Loving {Almost} Every Moment writes herself a letter of reflections and bits of wisdom she would have liked to know as a new mama.
- Top Ten Mama Necessities Money Can’t Buy — Buying baby gear is fun, but Emily at Crunchy(ish) Mama knows real parenting must-haves can’t be bought in stores (or even on Amazon).
- Top 10 Books for a Natural Mum — Isil at Smiling like Sunshine talks about her Top 10 Books for a Natural Mum.
- Ten Great Spring Activities To Do With Preschoolers — Kellie at Our Mindful Life and her family have come up with a great list of activities to do together this spring.
- 10 Ways to Reuse Yogurt Containers — Acacia at Fingerpaint & Superheroes keeps the stacks of yogurt containers out of her recycling bin by reusing them in both practical and creative ways.
- Top Ten Ways To Have a Harmonious Home — Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama shares her natural parenting-inspired methods for maintaining a harmonious daily life with her toddler.
- 10 Natural Baby Items I Love — Charise at I Thought I Knew Mama shares product ideas to support your natural parenting.
- The Pandas’ Top Five Crunch-osophies — Top five crunchy philosophies, as employed at the Panda Residence by Ana at Pandamoly.
- Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Son Intact — Mandy at Living Peacefully with Children has shared 10 reasons why you should leave your newborn son intact.
- Ten things everyone should know about unassisted homebirth — Olivia at Write About Birth shares practical tips for women considering an unassisted homebirth and debunks some common myths
- 10 Most Popular Ways To Treat Cloth Diaper Stains — Chante at My Natural Motherhood Journey gives ten easy tips to make your diapers like new.
- 10 Lessons in 1 Year — Abbie at Farmer’s Daughter shares 10 parenting lessons that she has learned throughout her first year of motherhood.
- Top 10 Ways to Get Breastfeeding Off To a Good Start — Sheryl at Little Snowflakes shares 10 effective ways to ensure breastfeeding gets off to a good start.
- Top 10 Ways to Avoid a Time-Out — If you are uncomfortable using time-outs in an attempt to control your child’s behavior, try one of these gentler alternatives. Dionna at Code Name: Mama shares her Top 10 Ways to Avoid a Time-Out.
- My Top 10 Parenting Scriptures — Dulce de leche is learning to integrate faith and parenting. Whether it is breastfeeding, babywearing, comforting her children, or gentle discipline, she finds that the Bible has beautiful passages to encourage her on her journey.
- Natural Cleaning Ideas – Top 10 — Laura at Laura’s Blog lists the ways she keeps her house clean and clear of chemicals.
- My Top Ten (plus two) Life Altering and Growth Inspiring Books — A top ten list of books from MJ at Wander Wonder Discover that changed her life as an individual, a parent, and an earth dweller.
- Top 10 Ways to Use Natural Parenting for Children with Special Needs — Danielle at Mommy Makes Cents feeds the needs of her family and special needs child through the use of Natural Parenting.
- Ten Fundamentals — Seonaid at The Practical Dilettante gets philosophical with a list of the fundamentals that drive her natural parenting.
- 10 reasons why I chose breast over bottles — Becky at Old New Legacy writes a quick list of why she chose breast over bottles.
- Top Ten Natural Tools for the Work of Play — Lori at Beneath the Rowan Tree offers insight into 10 natural toys that will span the early years (and save you money).
- 10 differences between pregnancy and parenting in Japan and the US — Megan at Ichigo Means Strawberry gives her impressions about differences in pregnancy and parenting in Japan and the US.
- Natural Parenting Benny & Bex Style — Pecky at Benny and Bex explains why Natural Parenting principles work best for her boys.
- Top 10 Reasons to Co-Sleep — 10 practical, emotional, and completely selfish reasons to co-sleep and share a family bed from Lily, aka Witch Mom.
- My Top Ten New Mommy Moments — Melissa at The New Mommy Files recounts the ten most memorable moments of her daughter’s first year.
- Top Ten Things Every Breastfeeding Mother Needs to Know — Kristen at Adventures in Mommyhood believes knowledge is power and wants all moms to be well informed.
- Top 10 Nursing Positions / Situations — Momma Jorje uses her 5½ years of nursing experience to share her Top 10 Nursing Positions/Situations. She includes some adorable photos of her youngest daughter at the breast.
- Ten Top Ways to Connect Kids with Nature — Terri from Child at the Nature Isle offers 10 ways to immerse ourselves in the natural world and develop a love affair with the Earth.
- Top 10 Slacker Ways to Natural Parent — Guavalicious is happy to show you how to parent naturally the slacker way.
- Simply what it looks like — Andrea!!! from Ella-Bean & Co. offers a glimpse into natural parenting through the eyes of mama and babe.
- Top Ten Reasons Why Natural Parenting Dads Are So Attractive — Nada at miniMOMist sure digs her husband, but it’s not just his good looks — it’s his parenting!
- 10 Family Systems and Routines That Work for Us — See what routines, organizational systems, and parenting approaches work for Kristin at Intrepid Murmurings to help avoid conflict and maintain sanity in a family with three young children.
- Top 10 reasons to choose midwifery care — Lauren at Hobo Mama lists the features that drew her to midwives’ care for pregnancy and birth.
- 10 Ways to Cloth Diaper on a Budget — Michelle at The Parent Vortex shares her best thrifty cloth diapering tips.
- Ten Reasons it Felt Sew Good To Make My Own Play Food — Brittany at Mama’s Felt Cafe lists her 10 (OK, 11) favorite reasons to grab a needle and start sewing your own felt play toys.
- Top10 Ways to Spark Interest, Learn, and Have Fun With Everyday Tasks! — Bethy at Bounce Me to the Moon gives you her top 10 ways of incorporating fun and lessons into everyday tasks and chores.
- Postpartum Gift Ideas — Alicia at I Found My Feet suggests a top 10 list of gifts for mother’s after giving birth.
- My Top Ten Shows Worthy Of Screen Time — Tree at Mom Grooves shares her top ten list of shows that she believes are positive, educational, kind, joyful, and a nice way to share some downtime with your children.
- The Top 10 Ways to Succeed as an Working Attachment Parent — That Mama Gretchen shares tried and true ways to succeed with attachment parenting even when working away from home during the day.
- Top Ten Books for Natural Parenting — Pregnancy, herbs, cooking, and healthcare the ten books Asha at Meta Mom the most.
- Preparing for a Hospital VBAC: My Top 10 — Thomasin at Propson Palingenesis shares 10 ways she’s preparing for her upcoming hospital VBAC.
- Top Ten New Mom Survival Tools — Wolfmother shares her most beloved motherhood survival tools at Fabulous Mama Chronicles.
- Top 10 Montessori Principles for Natural Learning — Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now gives her top 10 list of Montessori principles parents can use to encourage their children s natural learning.
- Going Granola — Tashmica from The Mother Flippin’ Blog describes the 10 ways that natural parenting sneaked up on her. She never expected to go all granola on the world.
- Step Away From the Amazon List — Stefanie at Very, Very Fine wishes she hadn’t bought so much useless stuff.























My vinegar trick: Put a tablespoon of apple cider vinegar in a cup of water and pour it over the ends of your hair after you shampoo. Rinse it out well. Your hair might smell a TINY bit like vinegar when it’s damp, but I think it fades completely by the time it’s dry. You cannot believe how good it makes your hair feel. It’s AMAZING. I have NO problem brushing it after and it makes your hair SO shiny. TRY IT!
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This is a fabulous list! I, too, love vinegar and coconut milk products. Some friends gave us half a dozen young coconuts this weekend and I’m looking forward to trying to make my own coconut milk as that So Delicious stuff is getting pricey! I am so thankful for the recipes you posted here, too! I need to try them both.
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This is great–I just have a question about the coconut oil deodorant–how do you actually put it on? I’m so used to roll on or stick–do you form it in into a stick or put it on like a thick powder or….I want to try this, but I can’t quite get my head around that part. Thanks for being so positive and inspiring!
Your recipe for Magick Ouchie Cream contains some really unusual ingredients, afraid I’ve never even heard of comfrey leaf or chamomile flower. Is it different to find these ingredients and where would you start to look?
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